Carl Summerhill needs a healthy kidney from a living donor.
“Or I will die much sooner than I would otherwise,” he told me before undergoing dialysis treatment this week.
The 32-year-old father of three young children from Valparaiso spoke with a tired voice but a hopeful tone. He didn’t ask for pity. He didn’t ask for condolences. He asked only for help to find a match to receive a new kidney. (Watch a video of Summerhill in his own words at NWI.com.)
“Organ donation saved my life once and I’m hoping it can do it again,” Summerhill said.
In 2018, he successfully underwent a pancreas transplant after years of health problems as a “very, very brittle” type 1 diabetic. He hasn’t needed a drop of insulin since the day of his transplant surgery. But for the past few months, his kidneys have been failing him.
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“It all started last October with powerful medications that began killing my kidneys,” Summerhill said while adjusting an IV port implanted in his chest. “I was just diagnosed with dialysis disequilibrium syndrome.”
DDS refers to an array of neurological manifestations that are seen during or following dialysis, ranging from headaches, nausea, or blurred vision to confusion, restlessness and seizures.
“I’ve felt pretty much normal most of my life. Not these days,” he said.
Summerhill, who was diagnosed with diabetes at 10 years old, received a life-changing pancreas transplant in 2018. He endured six surgeries over four days due to blood clots, internal bleeding and plummeting blood pressure. One of those surgeries was to make sure his new pancreas functioned properly.
“By the grace of God it was still perfect,” his wife, Sidney, said.
The first year after surgery, Summerhill suffered from a rare infection in his esophagus with only 25 known cases in the world and the first case in Indiana, he said. It took doctors a few months to correctly diagnose it, causing his health to further decline and his gallbladder to be removed.
Summerhill was later diagnosed with cytomegalovirus, or CMV, a common virus which most people don’t know they have because it rarely causes health problems.
“It’s different for people like me with a weakened immune system,” Summerhill said.
He was administered very potent intravenous anti-viral medication that began damaging his kidneys. For five years, Summerhill struggled with kidneys functioning at half of their healthy capacity.
“Five months ago, everything worsened,” he said. “My levels are dangerously abnormal.”
Summerhill’s initial health decline occurred in 2012 when he was involved in a traffic crash, shattering his pelvis and breaking his back. It led to a series of related medical issues, injections and procedures.
“I haven’t been normal since then,” Summerhill said matter-of-factly. “My numbers are going further and further down.”
Due to his debilitating illness, Summerhill is currently not working as a manager at Texas Roadhouse steakhouse in Crown Point, where I first met him last year. Soon after that day, he contracted COVID-19. His health fluctuated for weeks. Pneumonia attacked his helpless immune system three times in two months.
Doctors prescribed more antibiotics, steroids and eventually a bronchoscopy to see what exactly was in his lungs. A central IV line was inserted into his chest to administer more meds but his frail body couldn’t handle the doses. Toxicity seeped into his blood. His kidney function dropped to just 30%. Summerhill was told he needs a kidney transplant and he’s now on a waiting list from a deceased donor.
“I’m not sure how long I can wait, though,” he said. “I’m still trying to process this fact of my life.”
“We are looking for living kidney donors because the wait is three to five years for the United Network for Organ Sharing,” his wife said.
The couple is doing what they can to find a living donor and to educate people about organ donation. They shared with me a list of myths versus facts, such as this one.
“Myth: I’d like to donate one of my kidneys. Can I do that if it’s not going to a family member?”
“Fact: Yes. Most living donations are between family members and friends. But you can choose to donate a kidney to a stranger so long as you’re a match. You also can donate other organs and tissues, such as a lung or part of a lung or liver.”
Potential donors can be tested, at no cost.
“The process starts by making an appointment to be evaluated with blood work and other tests,” Summerhill said. “Then meet with the transplant team to see if they feel you are a good fit for a transplant.” (For more info, visit https://iuhealth.org/find-medical-services/kidney-transplant.)
On Saturday from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. a fundraiser titled “Kidney for Carl” is planned at Wanatah Christian Church, 11978 S. County Road 1100 West. Tickets can be purchased at eventsDCT@outlook.com.
“Even just the thought of possibly saving my life means everything to me,” Summerhill said. “All I can do is put my faith in God and hope someone has it in their heart to help keep me alive for my wife, kids and family.”
I asked Summerhill what he’s facing if he doesn’t receive a new kidney. His immediate response cut to the bone of his situation.
GALLERY: The Times Photos of the Week

Pilot Robert Johnson talks about his North American Aviation T-28B plane Friday at the Gary Air Show media preview at the Gary/Chicago International Airport.

Planes are prepped at the Gary/Chicago International Airport. They will be gearing up for the Gary Air Show this weekend at Marquette Beach.

Vintage military aircraft sit on the tarmac Friday at the Gary/Chicago International Airport. They can be seen this weekend at the Gary Air Show at Marquette Beach.

Crown Point emergency personnel stand by as they wait for NIPSCO crews to replace a pole at 97th Place and Main Street Thursday afternoon. Power was disrupted for a portion of Crown Point along Main Street. Traffic had to be diverted to Merrillville Road, causing long waits.

It was unknown how a pole snapped at 97th Place and Main Street in Crown Point Thursday afternoon. Power was disrupted for a large portion of Crown Point along Main Street. Traffic had to be diverted to Merrillville Road causing long waits.

It was unknown how a pole snapped at 97th Place and Main Street in Crown Point Thursday afternoon. Power was disrupted for a large portion of Crown Point along Main Street. Flames can be seen at the pole’s breaking point. Traffic had to be diverted to Merrillville Road causing long waits.
Women’s Olympic soccer team member Casey Krueger is welcomed home to Crown Point Wednesday. Mark Jahovic, 11, is thrilled to have gotten a high five on both hands from the soccer star.
Women’s Olympic soccer team member Casey Krueger is welcomed home to Crown Point Wednesday. Casey, her husband Cody and 2-year-old son Caleb speak to the fans who showed up to cheer on the soccer star at the Old Lake County Courthouse.
Women’s Olympic soccer team member Casey Krueger is welcomed home to Crown Point Wednesday. Casey and 2-year-old son Caleb ride a Crown Point fire truck around the square before stopping at the east entrance of the Old Lake County Courthouse.

Neighborhood Educational Opportunities received a $750,000 donated from the United Way of Indiana on Sunday for its proposed Creekside Early Learning Center, which is expected to open later this fall.

Williams Elementary School teacher Sharonne Scott, far left, leading a bike bus of students riding to school on the first day of classes in Gary.
Collin Froedge pitches for the Cyclones Saturday at the 45th World Wiffle Ball Championship at the Crown Point Sportsplex.
Alphas player Cooper Bierman connects Saturday at the 45th World Wiffle Ball Championship at the Crown Point Sportsplex.
Alphas player Maks Bartosky connects Saturday at the 45th World Wiffle Ball Championship at the Crown Point Sportsplex. Maks is CQ
Dylan Vielhuber from Reedsburg, Wisconsin bats Saturday at the 45th World Wiffle Ball Championship at the Crown Point Sportsplex.
Crown Point’s Bella Del Real serves to Munster at Saturday’s Crown Point volleyball invitational tournament.
Crown Point’s Alayna Panepinto tries unsuccessfully to save the ball at Saturday’s Crown Point volleyball invitational tournament.
Munster’s Nina Garner fires at Saturday’s Crown Point volleyball invitational tournament.
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